Real Talk About People-Pleasing Struggles With Desiree Wolfe

On the most recent The Expressive Mom Show episode, Desiree Wolfe was my guest. She is the powerhouse behind Slightly Unfiltered. Desiree brings a unique blend of confidence and boldness to her work, mixing it with a touch of caffeine. With 16 years of parenting experience, she juggles multiple roles and careers as a vibrant working mother in the bustling Las Vegas scene.

Desiree is an accomplished event professional, podcast host, and guest speaker known for her insightful and candid approach. Her distinctive, unfiltered wit has made her a sought-after voice in her field. On today’s show, we’ll delve into the challenges of overcoming people-pleasing and workaholism, two issues Desiree has tackled head-on.

Exploring People-Pleasing and Workaholism

People-pleasing and workaholism often intersect, fueled by a deep need for external validation and approval. People-pleasers aim to keep others happy, sometimes to their own detriment, by sacrificing their needs and desires. Meanwhile, workaholics equate their self-worth with their level of productivity, believing that constant work is the key to their value.

Both tendencies can lead to severe burnout, strained relationships, and a lack of personal fulfillment, as every action feels like a performance to meet others’ expectations or prove one’s worth through relentless effort. To break free from this cycle, it’s essential to develop self-awareness and redefine success on your own terms.

Start by setting clear boundaries and learning to say no without guilt. It’s important to prioritize your well-being over the pursuit of constant approval. Recognize that your worth is inherent and not dependent on overworking or pleasing others. Embrace rest, engage in hobbies, and make time for yourself. You can create a balanced life that honors your true self by focusing on self-compassion, authenticity, and mindful choices. This approach fosters healthier relationships, a more sustainable work-life balance, and a deeper sense of inner peace and self-respect.

You can check out Desiree at https://slightlyunfiltered.com.

Next week, I will talk to a guest who shares her story about overcoming alcoholism during motherhood. In the meantime, follow The Expressive Mom Show on IG: @anexpressivemom and the website https://expressivemom.com.

Here is the episode with Desiree Wolfe!